Stay In The Room
When tension rises, the easiest thing to do is walk away. But real resolution begins when we choose to stay in the room.
Staying offers that we value the relationship more than our discomfort. It means we are willing to listen, not just speak. It creates space for honesty.
Conflict often feels personal, but more often it's just two people protecting something that matters to them. If we leave, we protect ourselves. If we stay, we protect the relationship.
Of course, staying in the room does not mean tolerating disrespect. It means choosing to engage with compassion. Most conflicts do not need to be won. They need to be understood.
So next time things get hard, try staying in the room. Not easy but doable.